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A genital wart also might be a possibility, depending on what it looks like. As I suggested above, the safest thing is to see a health care provider and not try to figure this out by online inquiries.
Best wishes.
Welcome to the forum.
This doesn't sound like herpes. However, if you are at risk -- e.g., recent new partner or sex with someone known to have genital herpes (or you received oral sex recently from someone believed to have oral herpes) -- you should see a health care provider and not rely on this advice to know for sure whether or not you have it.
HSV lesions usually are not "hard" and generally progress within 4 days from a superficial bump to blister to open sore. However, pimples, folliculitis, sebaceous cysts, fibromas, and other sorts of genital skin lesions often stay more or less unchanged for a few days. Another clue is how deep the lesion is. Pimples and folliculitis burrow more deeply, whereas herpes lesions tend to be quite superficial; the one can be considered to be "in" the skin, the other "on" the surface of the skin. This isn't hard and fast, however.
Bottom line: My best guess is that you don't have herpes, but that's all it is -- an educated guess. But I hope this helps.
Regards-- HHH, MD
Oops...I meant LABIA minora :)