Nobody said you were crazy.
I saw the timing of your tests when I replied above. 11 weeks is fine in this situation. You didn't need testing for HSV-2 anyway, because it's not a possibility after an oral sex exposure. You don't have it.
That's the end of this thread.
i came to this forum because my doctors never mentioned
how long you had to wait to take the hsv2 test and to ask if the herpes select test was reliable at 11 weeks and 3 days
i do have have mono posotive igm and my other post was for an open sore on my penis and insertive sex im not crazy
Let me get this straight. You have been to 4 doctors, including 2 infectious diseases specialists, who all agree that you do not have genital herpes and have said, on the basis of multiple blood tests, that you do not have HSV-2 (despite one results that was false positive). And now you come to a distant online source and expect to hear something different? Sorry to disappoint you, but I agree exactly with what you have been told by all 4 doctors. Your symptoms do not suggest herpes anyway; genital herpes simply does not cause the combination of types of symptoms you describe.
As for Epstein Barr virus (EBV), you describe nothing that hints at infectious mononucleosis or anything else caused by EBV. Where does that idea come from?
From both this thread and your previous one on the HIV prevention forum (and apparently a duplicate HIV forum question that was deleted), as well as your own statement about "anxiety driving me crazy", it is obvious that your main problem is psychological. This is probably the main basis of all your symptoms. Please discuss that aspect forthrightly with your primary care provider, and be prepared to accept his or her advice when s/he suggests referral for professional counseling about it. I suggest it out of compassion, not criticism.
In your own interest, i.e. to avoid reinforcing your anxieties, I will not respond to any follow-up "yes but" or "what if" questions, and any new questions on this forum or the HIV prevention forum about this exposure or these symptoms will be deleted without reply.
Good luck-- HHH, MD