There is really no realistic rason to test for any STDs, including HIV. Please work to move forward from your guilt. there was a mis-step- you were not infected. Now time to put this behind you and move forward and not allow yourself to be haunted by the past. EWH
Thank you for your quick response. I am having a hard time forgiving myself and most importantly concerned about exposing my spouse to something. Besides HIV, is there a need for me to get tested for any other STD's?
Welcome to our Forum. Overall the risk for getting HIV from any oral exposure is, on average, low - 1 infection per every 10,000 exposures on average. Among forms of oral sex cunnilingus is among the least likely to result in infection. There are no HIV infections that I am aware of that have resulted from cunnilingus.
Regarding your own exposure, there is no risk of infection from masturbation. Finally, you do not know that your partner had HIV. It is unlikely that he did.
I would urge you not to worry. There is no medical need for testing related to the exposure you describe. EWH