The topic of HPV and genital warts is a complex one. I will try to provide some facts. For additional information on this most common of STDs, I would suggest search for other HPV- and wart-related Q&A on this site, as well seeking addition information on sites such as the American Social health Association web-site (disclosure, Dr. Handsfield and I are both on the Board of ASHA)..
For better or worse, at present HPV is a "fact of life" and most people have it or will have it at some point in the future. There are over 100 different types of HPV. Some preferentially infect genital areas, others other parts of the body (hands, feet, etc). Despite the fact that HPV is so widespread, only a tiny minority of persons with HPV get the consequences of infection (primarily women and primarily cancer and pre-cancerous lesions). HPV is the most commonly acquired STD. Over 85% of sexually active women will have HPV infection at some time in their lives. The figure for men is less well studied but similar. In some HPV will cause genital warts, in others it will not cause warts but may lead to changes in PAP smears. In nearly everyone who gets HPV, warts or otherwise, the infections will resolve by themselves without therapy in 8-24 months. In a very small minority of women, HPV infection can persist and lead to the pre-cancerous lesions that PAP smears detect and which can then be treated. For men there is far less risk of any sort, With this as background, let's address your questions.
FYI, we do not get into debates with other web sites or information sources. There is lots of misinformation out there and we do not have the time to get into these sorts of debates. We urge clients not to go to such sites but if you choose to do so, that's up to you.
Genital HPV is primarily transmitted through ano-genital contact. Genital HPV strains are occasionally transmitted by other means including oral sex but it is uncommon and when it does, it is rarely of consequence. I am not aware of HPV transmission through kissing and would not worry about it if I were you.
HPV transmission on people’s hands is simply not a realistic concern.
Please take a look at the ASHA site. I will not get into a series of hypothetical "could it ever..." scenarios. This is not in your interest or mine. I hope my comments are helpful. I suspect the ASHA site will be even more help. EWH
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Thank you doctor for addressing my concerns - the character limitation above did not allow me to say it there :)
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Here's another article that claims hand transmission:
http://www.amoils.com/treatment/genital-warts/hand-transmission-of-genital-warts.html
And .. another link that claims that casual HPV transmission is possible: http://www.buzzle.com/articles/hpv-transmission-facts.html
There are lots of such claims floating around the web ...