For what it's worth my neuro is a woman and doesn't really listen. I mean, she's not as bad as some of the stories I read about, but she does the whole "maybe it's stress" thing. And then last time I sent her an email she did a whole non-answer thing that was frustrating. So maybe it's not sex, or maybe you should only see the same sex that you are.
i had a woman neuro first and she was brilliant, i loved as much as a patient could love their doctor, i really couldn't have asked for a better one. but then my case got a bit difficult for her so she sent me to a more senior neuro. i honestly don't like him but he's one of the best in our country so if there's anyone who can "fix" me, i'm sure it will be him. unfortunately though he's adopting the "wait and see" approach (the other neuro also did that) because he feels that i'm not showing any specific symptoms of anything yet. to cut a long story short, i think that also biased towards women neuros
take care
hi theasian,
thank you so much for your reply. i have to say that after seeing over 27 doctors during this hellish journey, i am relieved to have a neuro who is willing to communicate with me. the first one i saw was quite brilliant and well meaning, but he was young and seemed to have attention deficit disorder. he never returned calls and didn't follow through on anything. the other veteran doc who allegedly specialized in diagnosing difficult to diagnose neurological conditions came out of the gate like a shot, but once he didn't see MS lesions on my spinal cord, i fell off of his radar and he stopped returning my calls.
maybe i am sexist, but it is my perception that having a woman neuro in this case is better for me.
i hope we are all able to find our tickets out of this desolate place we call limboland sooner than later, too. in the mean time, it sure is nice chatting with you all and "feeling the love".
peace,
binx
i'm glad to hear that the neuro is willing to go through things for you and that she is doing something! it's always nice when you find one that is proactive and doesn't want to take the "let's wait and see" approach.
i hope that you will be telling us soon that you are no longer a limbolander! :)
take care
thank you both for the responses. we'll see what happens next, and i'm trying not to get my hopes up, but i have to admit, my spirit was a bit lighter this morning after the phone call after having had such a difficult last week. just the mere fact that the neuro called me back herself and talked to me for several minutes was a huge plus considering the faulty communication skils my previous two neuros possessed.
i will keep everyone posted.
blessings to you all,
binx
I am so excited for you! I can't help but watch your progress because I, too, think that my impinging disk in my neck is one of the root causes of the neuro problems I'm having. I don't know if there's even a 3T available in this area, but I can tell you, no one here has suggested I get better pics. Looks like your doc is really on the ball.
--faithHGL
Hey toots,
WELL...your right at least they are looking for things!!!! and a 3T is supposed to be aawesome....so maybe it will show something that they did not see on the last films.....
Please let us know.....
Thinking of you
Jibs