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Control freak
I have been involved with a control freak on and off for two or three years or more. He can be very charming but he can change on a dime to cruel and vindictive. He has yelled at me. Called me horrible names is very aggressive at times. One time he shoved me up against the rear view side mirror of his car and he also hit my leg w a Cain before. We have been intimate but I have never had sexual intercourse. It's very complicated. I guess my question is if I go thru with it will he be better or worse about control etc. ??????? Any advise is appreciated.
Thank you for your response. On an intellectual level. I knw your right. Sad to lov a person you can't fix!!!!!!! Thanks again.
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hello.
The person you are describing is displaying all the qualities of someone who is both emotionally and physically abusive.
You're asking if having sex with him will somehow make him kinder and gentler? In what universe do you imagine this is possible? Sex doesn't change anyone's behavioral/emotional characteristics.
Instead, you should ask yourself why you're in this relationship with an abusive person and what your future with him will be like. It isn't going to get better; it will only get worse.
Please consider seeing a counselor to talk about how you can get out of this relationship before the abuse escalates. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
The person you are describing is displaying all the qualities of someone who is both emotionally and physically abusive.
You're asking if having sex with him will somehow make him kinder and gentler? In what universe do you imagine this is possible? Sex doesn't change anyone's behavioral/emotional characteristics.
Instead, you should ask yourself why you're in this relationship with an abusive person and what your future with him will be like. It isn't going to get better; it will only get worse.
Please consider seeing a counselor to talk about how you can get out of this relationship before the abuse escalates. Best of luck to you. Dr. J
I meant to say that he and I have never had sexual intercourse. Would he be better or worse if we did??????????
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