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I honestly can say that i do not remember every having an orgasm. Im 19 and ive been with a few people and now im in a serious relationship and hes getting frustrated because he cant get me off and he asks me how he can get me off and i cant tell him. We've gotten a vibrator and ive used it but i get excited and it feels good but i can never get to that point were an orgasm happens. im worried that theres something wrong with me and that im getting to old to figure out my own body because i was raised in a household were masterbation was bad and because i dont know myself i cant tell him what to do and now its causing relationship problems. what can i do to put it bluntly to increase my chances of getting off.
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My wife rubs her clitoris while we're having intercourse.  Yes its a big turn on, and we all have to take control of our own pleasure.

If you're 19, and your boyfriend is of similar age, he might just lack the patience of skill to let it happen naturally.

And keep in mind, women do not easily climax from pure vaginal penetration alone.  

Here's a suggestion.  You might want to try having sex with him entering you from behind.  You rub your clitoris while he gently massages and maybe even slides a finger into your anus.  Normally I'd say ******* but this is a clinical forum.  : )

We all have a large number of nerve endings in the anal region, and women just like men find stimulation of that area to be a wonderful addition to their sexual activity.

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When I was a teenager I never masterbated. I didn't know my body that well either. Not until after I got married that I started. I think if you tried to masterbate, alone, you could figure out what pleases you and you might have more luck during sex. But, most women have difficulty with orgasim during sex. Once you've learned your body, you could start pleasing yourself during sex, guys love that! Plus, you're still young, I'm 26 and I've only recently been more intuned with my body and finding more and more things that turn me on.
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