No Orgasms

[dlszjb]

My boyfriend and I have a great love life, but lately hes been asking questions about why ive never had an orgasm. ive never had one, or at least i dont think i have. and according to him, that means no. i have absolutely no complaints whatsoever, and it is by far the best sex ive ever had in my life. the kind that makes your legs go numb, and your eyes roll to the back of your head :-D  its no doubtedly the fact that ive never been in such an awesome, amazing relationship. but it seems to bother him, a lot. its not that i dont enjoy it, i absolutely love it, he drives me crazy. i tell him not to worry about it, but of course he takes it personally and feels that hes somehow failing me. i couldnt be happier with him, everything is perfect. how do i convince him that my lack of an orgasm is no reflection on him, or my pleasure? or, how do i help him give me one, and make us both even happier?

[dlszjb]

no i am female.. a computer enept female. sorry!

[Janice M Epp, PhD]

Hello.

I can't respond to your question without more information. Your profile states that you're a man, so I'm assuming you're in a sexual relationship with a man, since you refer to your boyfriend. So when you write about "sex," to what activity are you referring to? There are many ways for people to be sexual: oral stimulation, anal stimulation, etc. So what kind of stimulation are you getting, and is it enough for orgasm? Write back with specifics, and I'll answer your question. Dr. J

[sjivey]

He sound like me. I get off knowing my wife gets orgasms. Try showing him what gets you excited the most. Positions or area's that he is touching. that makes your toes curl.

good luck