Been in a relationship for 14 years. Had normal paps annually for that period of time. After 3 children, youngest of 7 years, had an abnormal pap? O.B. stated i have H.P.V. first time i heard about it. HOW??? I understand it can sit dormant, how long, if so what makes it active? Yes, i have only been with the one person! From what i am reading the virus last 6-9 months is that the truth?