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1427909 tn?1283080415

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i am a pre opp  transgendered girl and im trying so hard to keep myself together every day  i fight so very hard to stay ok ...help!!!
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Hi, i can listen to you anytime you need. I hope you will be ok, i struggle alot as well. Do you have much family support, or a therapist? I am here so just talk ok. Take care
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I expect there is a lot of pressure and discrimination placed on you regarding your gender and perceived choices.
Have you tried therapy to work through some of your thoughts and feelings?
I expect surgery must bring with it a lot of fears and concerns even if it is something that feels right to you.

Feel free to chat here but I would definitely recommend you seek additional support (friends, family, therapist, etc.  Whatever is most appropriate to you.).

Good luck with everything and take care.
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1427909 tn?1283080415
thank you so much at least someone was listening it means alot to me
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You're welcome.  How are you doing now?  Have you been able to talk to someone (like really talk) about how you're feeling?  Do you feel terrified about your choices?
I was just wondering.  Aren't there hormone injections?  Could they be affecting how you're feeling?

I hope you have someone close to you who can listen.  When is your surgery set for?
I've had surgery for breast cancer issues and that was overwhelming enough.  I would seriously not like to be in your position.  I hope you have a good doctor and team and they have explained everything well and more importantly, do a good job.

What, why or for who do you feel you're trying to keep it together for.  It's OK to discuss concerns.  Strength sometimes comes from being weak.

I hope my posting this was OK.  It would be nice to talk to you again.

Take care for now.

J
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