1 chemical, 1 missed..bad eggs?

[chele0531]

Hi ladies, I was hoping, unfortunately that maybe someone else has experienced what I have and could give me some feedback.  I am 26 years old, I first at 21 was told I could NEVER EVER get pregnant, that my body did not ovulate, and I had lack of hormones.  At 24, (and I wish I never did it!) I was spotting and decided to take a test, I was pregnant but had spotting.  My PCP did the beta hcg & I was at a 15, the next morning I had cramping, clotting and went to the ER where I found out I had experienced a Chemical Pregnancy.  Then, at 25 my fiance and I were through the roof when we found out I was pregnant.  I had some slight spotting, at 5 weeks but they said it looked ok for now.  I had my first u/s at 11 weeks 1 day.  And they found no heart beat.  I didn't know that you could have the fetus tested, I was going to a really crappy women's center that were awful during the process of it.  I had a missed miscarriage.  The baby had died about one week before.  My fiance and I are going to start trying to conceive next year, but I'm worried that I may have bad eggs.  Has anyone else experienced 2 miscarriages and then carried healthy babies to term?

[chele0531]

Thank you so so much for saying that! You honestly, just took A LOT of worry off me. I'm pretty sure I know why the first happened..when the baby should have been implanting I was redececorating my mothers room, lifting a 52 inch OLD TV...painting all of that.  So that makes me feel much  much much better.  Thank you.  And I am so sorry that you have gone through the same as I have...it's such a hard hard thing. I should have been delivering on the 15th and my mind and emotions are a mess.  My fiance just cried the other day.  I'm sorry about your kidney stones, hopefully they will get them under control quickly and you can start getting busy!!!!!

Baby dust to you as well*****

[angelca55]

I'm sorry for your losses. I have also had a missed miscarrige and a CP this year and am scared i may never become a mum. The good news is that i'm told the two are not related and therefore i should still be able to carry a healthy pregnancy full term... unfortunately i'm currently under going treatment for several kidney stones so have had to put ttc on the back burner till i'm sorted, but good luck to the pair of us as it sounds like we could do with a little.


Baby dust xx