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1688492 tn?1346364370

Done with this

We have been TTC for over a year now and I'm so sick of people being negative!!! I've decided to stop, I'm so upset/crushed that I don't want a baby right now. Taking a break is for the best  and people telling us we don't need a baby right now makes me so upset that it's drove me to this point!!
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1836820 tn?1339475588
girl keep trying dont give up... let us know what happen..
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1688492 tn?1346364370
BAd thing is we just came back from our honeymoon 4 weeks ago so we cant go anywhere soon, also we didnt work for 3 weeks bc of the wedding and honeymoon so no time off for me soon!!! LOL im now wondering if i got pregnant on our honey and thats why i havent started! im testing this week and still going for an ultrasound nov. 1st
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1794093 tn?1357930759
It sounds like you deserve some positive energy to destress and focus on yourself time! maybe a nice date night with hubby, night away or if possible a vacation with hubby... or maybe its some girl time... shopping or spa day? or maybe its alone time... accupuncture, massage... what ever you want! i think you need and deserve a chance to step back regroup and go back in with the positive energy you probably had when you first started trying... and never mind what some "man" says cause he as a guy truly doesnt understand what strong feeling women can have towards childbearing... and remember every month is a new month! fresh start... and good luck!!
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60890 tn?1366358119
Oh no! I'm really sorry to hear that after you thinking it finally happened at last! Maybe a little break from trying will be good and you never know what might happen in that time too if the pressure is off!
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1688492 tn?1346364370
Ya! Il suppose to start clomid but my period won't come!
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I sort of know how you feel. Been trying for 7 months now. Last month missed my AF completely because of the stress of trying to conceive. I think giving it a break and not thinking about it constantly would be good for us although its so hard to do.
Im 30 and this will be my first so I really feel like im running out of time but theres no point stressing anymore. It just makes us crazy.
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1688492 tn?1346364370
Thanks!! Mostly his dad! It drives me crazy!
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689528 tn?1364135841
Oh no! Who is being negative!? A year seems like a while but it can take a healthy couple a year to conceive.
I hope nothing too bad happened and if you continue or when you are ready....we will be here :)
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