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1757685 tn?1313006727

NEED SERIOUS HELP

ok im a 14 year old male teen who just got out of a relationship yesterday,but ive been having these symtoms for the past 3 or 4 weeks i wont tell my parents or go see a doctor until i have an idea with whats wrong with me. i have constant neck pain and chest pain the neck pain is in the back left of my neck and the chest pain is like a dull sore in the left side of my chest. i always have a minor headace in the back left side of my head.i feel nauseous constintly but i never throw up. im extremly thristy but i can never drink enough i drink about 13 bottles of water.i dont fall asleep i always pass out even though i try to go to sleep i never can just fall asleep i will always be like getting up to get something to eat or drink but then i pass out it will be like 3 or 4 in the morning .i have a healthy diet.and if your wondering i am i do cut myself ive been doing it for about three years.i wont let my parents know because they would make me see a counselor or a therapist ik i have a problem.i just need help.my friends accept that im emo but adults reject me and make fun of me for being emo thay pick me out of the crowd just to make me feel worse like at school the teacher always makes me read my poems in front of everyone then all the other kids reject me and call me gay because i write poems i will put one in if soemone wants to know my pain.but thats nothing new can someone answer my question.plzz i need help i thinking of suicide if my conditions worsen or last forever.its the last thought in my head but the pain is unbearable at times and school and parents dont help much so plz tell me whats wrong with me.heres poem i decided to put in.its called have you
have you?
have you tried?
have you ever tried to be my friend?
have you ever tried to be nice to me?

so dont tell me i have issues!
dont you dare say im depressing!

i cut myself so what?
i dont need your help!
its my freedom its how i relese my pains all my fears
thats me take it

dont preach to me
i need you... i want you...TO GET OUT OF MY FACE!

have you tried to help me commit suicide???

hope u enjoyed ik i didnt.
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1757168 tn?1312811749
emokid92.  I'm ShadowJewels and I too was a cutter.  I did it because it was the only way I knew to release all the emotions built up inside myself.  It was a very hard time in my life.  I write peotry to and think it is a wonderful way to unlock some of the emotions.  I can understand you not wanting to talk to your parents about it but I would talk to someone.  Being emotional is not a bad thing, and having talent for expressing it is not a bad thing either.  I know how the kids see it though and it is hard being picked on, but I learned a long time ago alot of it has to do with jealousy.  They are having a harder time with understanding themselves than you are.  If you need someone to talk to that somewhat understands what you are going through message back, and I will share my peoms too.
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emokid, im not here to preach to you. i do want you to get help, only a doctor can tell whats going on, with blood work and test. i know what its like to be hurt and no one cares. i do care and i want to help you.the problem is at your age you will have to tell your parents so they can get you to the doc. i feel you have had so much pain it has made you sick.people do diffrent things and diffrent ways to stop the hurt. bad thing is in the long run you end up hurting yourself worse than the other people hurt you. don't stop writting your poems, so what if they call you gay. they don't know you or your feelings. i don't want anything bad to happen to you. you are the first person i have talk to on here, hope we can be friends and keep in touch. i would like to ask you to tell your parents you need to see the doc and talk open to the doc, if you want to be alone with the doc, tell him you want it to be a one on one.staying thursty allthe time is also a sign of being a diabetic, or a number of other things. would you please let me know what you deciede to do. your friend bamagurl545
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I'm sorry you haven't been feeling well and are going through such a rough time.  While I understand why you don't want to talk to your parents or go to a counselor, you really, really need to.  Not just for your emotional health, but for your physical health also.  If you really feel that you can't talk to your parents - or are afraid to do so - find another trusted adult - a teacher, a counselor at school, the school nurse, the principal - anybody that you trust.  If you're having trouble opening up and being able to talk about things, simply show them your arm where you've been cutting and that will help "break the ice".  You can also call, toll free and completely anonymously, the suicide prevention hotline - you can find their number online or in your yellow pages phone book.  You may feel more comfortable talking to someone over the phone like that rather than in person, so that may be a way to take that first step to getting some help.

some of your physical symptoms could indicate diabetes, but they could also indicate an electrolyte imbalance from drinking TOO much water.  I know it sounds crazy, but you really CAN drink too much water and cause problems with your electrolytes (sodium, potassium, other minerals) getting too low in your blood.  My nephew had this happen to him when he was in Marine boot camp and believe me, if this is what's going on physically, you don't want it to continue.  It could end up causing permanent problems with your heart, brain, seizures, etc.

Believe me, please, that I'm not trying to scare you - I simply want you to know that it is very important that you find SOMEONE who you can talk to and get both your physical and emotional troubles checked into.

When you say you "pass out" - do you mean you just suddenly fall asleep without remembering falling asleep?  Or do you literally pass out where you lose consciousness and end up on the floor?  It's actually very common for teens your age to have a different sleep schedule and stay up til the wee hours of the morning and then sleep later - however, changes in sleep patterns can also be a symptom of both physical and emotional troubles, so getting this looked into also is important.

NEVER be embarrassed or feel badly about writing poetry.  Some of the most beautiful poems, songs, love letters were written by men!  It most definitely does NOT mean that you are gay.  Try not to pay any attention to what others say - I know that is a lot easier said than done.

I know I'm a lot older than you are and I may sound like just anotehr adult preaching to you, but honestly I'm not.  I really am worried about you and hope that you'll take my advice and reach out to someone and get the help that you need - and DESERVE!!

Please let me know how you're doing and KEEP ON WRITING!
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i wont PREACH TO YOU I HAVE A 14 YR OLD JUST LIKE YOU KIDS DONT UNDERSTAND HIM AND CALL HIM GAY TOO BECAUSE HE IS SO EMOTIONAL HE IS HAVING PROBLEMS GETTING DIZZY AND NOT SLEEPING WELL WE ARE TESTING HIM FOR DIABETES RIGHT NOW WE PUT HIM THROUGH COUNSELING AND MEDICATIONS AND NOTHING REALLY WORKS FOR HIM I JUST HAVE TO LET HIM BE HIMSELF AND WHEN I DO THAT HE TALKS TO ME WHEN HE REALLY NEEDS TO I HOPE YOU FIND SOMEONE THAT UNDERSTANDS YOU IF YOU DONT YOU CAN VENT TO ME I WONT JUDGE YOU I DONT KNOW YOU I WILL JUST LISTEN AND HOPFULLY MAKE SURE YOUR OK
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are you checking in i want to hear from you please
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351246 tn?1379682132
MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL
Hi
Welcome to the MedHelp forum!
Constant thirst, dry mouth etc can be due to anxiety, acid reflux and or diabetes. Since you are facing a lot of psychological issues, it is but natural to be anxious. This can also cause neck and chest pain. However, in your age, this pain could also be due to wrong posture while studying, working with computers, laptops etc.
Since you had a sexual relationship only a day before, and have been having these symptoms for long, they are unlikely to be STD related.
Please discuss with your parents or a school teacher or someone older who understands you and seek medical help.
Take care!
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i haven't heard from you where are you
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