I had rectocele and cystocele repair on July 6th. I immediately gained 15 lbs and was in the ER twice in the following 4 days. The first time, they gave me more pain meds & an antibiotic for a UTI. The second time they removed almost a gallon of urine that I was retaining (and I immediately lost 8 lbs). I was given a Foley catheter for 4 day....after iti was removed I still can't pee and am self catheterizing. The surgeon said he's never seen this happen with the surgery he performed in 20 years and has no answers, in addition, I feel like he's avoiding me. Any ideas or suggestions on what I could/should do so that I'm not looking at catheterizing for the rest of my life. I am only 45 years old. Any suggestions on specialists I should see? They want me to take Bethanecol?