Female genitalia can vary in size and shape a great deal and this is normal. I suspect that you are perfectly normal and your friends are just showing their immaturity and ignorance. Most men are not very experienced when it comes to the female anatomy and I doubt you will experience any problem let alone be judged. Like women, male genitalia differ a great deal as well. Considering differences in the sizes of noses, ears, breast, hair, etc. we are all different yet completely normal for the most part. J. Kyle Mathews, MD
Every girls body is different. I myself have i guess you can say the same issue as you. I'm 22 going to be 23 and my past partners have NOT once complained or said anything about my area. Yes I'm still self concious cause I feel like something is wrong with me but my fiancee has no problem with how I look so why should I.