Anyone else have worries over random things???!

[Verysoon]

Am I the only one whos hormones have them worrying over things that they can not control...like world events??? I'm so over the "worry" I know I have no control over world events and the things that happen. But I can't help but wonder about the future for my little fella (and soon his little sisters we are planning) I just want everyone on the planet happy. I know that sounds silly.  Please tell me I'm not alone in this! I was up praying all night for God to make the feeling go away.

I am turning my troubles over to God because I can not do this alone.

Thanks for letting me vent :-)

[Jhanee]

You are not alone in this  at all. My OB has a rule unless necessary you are not allowed to make any major decisions. She said it is because of your hormones. I just focus on relaxing. I also limit information that is given to me. Even my husband is not allowed to share at times. The baby is to important. I tell people I am on vaction from heavy thinking. I turn school problems over to my parents and dicipline to my a child therapist. I made a support group. It helps. Now I worry about am I relaxing to much. Funn huh. Oh well.

[angela418]

That is so true...when you have things to occupy your time and mind with, the time does fly.  I find that since this is my second pregnancy, it's going a lot faster because I know what to expect, but also because my 15 month old son keeps me really busy!  LOL  I guess that's good, but now in the 3rd trimester when I am already achy, it's harder and harder to keep up w/ him! lol  Just keep yourself busy with little tasks, getting baby stuff all ready, and before you know it, he'll be here!  We are already over 2/3 of the way there!  Crazy!

[Verysoon]

Thanks Ladies glad to know im not alone. I have been better this weekend, I find when I am busy I worry less. So that's the plan, to keep myself busy until this little one decides to make his entrance. :-)

[angelkisses777]

Count me in!! Been there so many times but still I'm thinking about things I can not change - good to know that God is already there in the future and He paved the way!!! Without Him I know we would have had BIG problems!!!!! Blessings

[Kara_robbie]

I am in the same boat ladies. I am 35yrs old and have 2 older children (13 & 15) and this will be DH's first baby. I do not want anymore after this and he is ok with that so I am considering getting my tubes tied. My concern/worry is what if something happens to this baby, god forbid, and he will be left childless if he stays with me.....I am also freaking out about my planned c-section. I tend to panic and asked my dr to give me a little bit of something to take the edge off and he said that would be no problem...but I am still freaking out!! UGH!! I just can't wait to hold her in my arms!!

[Manderella2]

Omg i have traumatized myself, i want to know everything about birth and whats going on inside the womb, and as im reading something interesting i always stumble across something scary and then i start to worry its bad. I feel like im not going to get a baby at the end its really weird i know, just crazy to think that i have a life growing inside me.

[angela418]

I worry about big things occasionally, too.  I also often think about what if this or that happens to my babies, like they get sick or injured or worse.  It's only natural since we love our babies so much, and since we made them, that we want them to be as happy and safe as can be.  But, I do the best I can, leave the rest to God, and hope for the best future that they can have.  I also try and remember to enjoy each precious moment with my son and also my daughter-in-the-womb since time goes by too fast and before you know it they'll be grown!