I packed EVERYTHING, right down to my kindle. I read up on a lot of suggestions so my hospital bag consists of: a robe, a night gown, a set if clothes to go home in, my breast pump, my boppy, my kindle, my laptop (loaded with a playlist of soothing music for labor), a small plush pillow, a book, phone charger, shampoo, body soap, breast pads, maxi pads, tooth brush, hair ties, lotion, Chapstick, witch hazel, a spray bottle, tucks pads, clothes for daddy, extra sweatshirt, his diaper bag (stuffed with soap, lotion, rash cream, diapers, wipes, blankets, swaddlers, his going home outfit and baby book) it seems like a lot, but the hospital will usually provide you with all the toiletries, I just prefer my own.
im 9 days too i havent packed snacks but got carton drinks with a straw to make it easier for my partner to give me a drink if i needed one.
My doctor told my to pack a bag full of the stuff I'd take if I was going to stay in a hotel for a couple of days. Of course I'm due in 4 days and still haven't packed anything lol