hi, i am so sorry she's going threw this, my mom was the same way and they put her on a anxiety med that keep her calm, its so sad for them as they don't know whats going on with them, glad she's going to a Dr so they can help ya out, just be there for her and keep telling hear sheds ok and ya are there for her, she needs that secure feeling . ... HEART
Hi, so sorry your going threw this. i have been threw this and its a hard part of life, the terrors are so real to her and you have to be there and keep telling her its ok, she's safe and nothing is going happen, sometimes i had to kill my moms terrors so she would feel better, call the police ( pretend) to make her feel safe, with Dementia and Alz you need to go into her world, if it does not hurt her let her do it. don't take every thing away from her, her world will crash, we let mom still was clothes but we were there to help her, sweep the floors etc things like that. short term for my mom was forgetting what she had ate 5 mins ago, their long term is good my mom could remember when she was 5 but not what she just did 5 mins before , put up all meds and anything she can hurt herself with, for example my mom would drink hand sandentizer hurt her throat , they don't remember so you are their protecter . find things for her to take up her time if you can, walks are great. its not a easy task and it breaks your heart each day something will be different in her. just let her know your there for her, join her in her world, i used to tell my mom she was so tired because we had been shopping all day, anything to help her get threw her day. when mom lost her words she loved us threw her eyes and hands we held her hand a lot that way she knew she was safe. get lots rest and eat good and the main caretaker will need breaks everyday. its harder on them than it is the person who has it. here if you need to talk..... Heart