I think that that you sound like a very caring person putting her first and being concerned but remember this os your first baby and that should be celebrated!! It is hard..peoole can be touchy, I say that tell the family when you want to and feel ready. Maybe talk to her directly first and tell her how excited you are to be pregnant together...how close the cousins will be etc? You can shop together! How exciting! Maybe then she will put all your fears to rest and you can both have an Awesome pregnancy and be happy :-) At the end of the day though, sadly ,you can never please everyone. WISH you all the best <3
Thank you all so much for your encouragement. She is a wonderful lady and I am super excited to share this time with her. Hopefully I can report back soon with positive things ☺️
When we told my husband's family, we found out that his brother and fiancé were also expecting and are due a week before us! I get along really well with my SIL so it was exciting for both of us and for the whole family. It's her second baby (my first) so it's also great to have someone that has been through a pregnancy before and is going through the same changes and symptoms right along with me. You might be surprised, she might be excited to share this journey with someone close to her. And think about how close your baby will be with his/her cousin!!
Sorry about my bad spelling..I am awful typing on my phone!
Hard situation, hopefully someone has been through the same can help. My advice is just be yourself <3.