Any suggestions

[Silla86]

When I was 3 months pregnant with my son my sons dad threw me against the arm of the couch which caused me to end up on the other side of that arm this is where the abuse started. When I had my son I had a C section. After about 3 weeks the abuse got worse it had gotten to where I was being socked in the back of my head and being choked and purposely stomped on and about a week ago he hit me in my rib cage. Now there might be a big possibility that I may be pregnant again. My question is do you think history will repeat itself. I dont know what to do I am kinda scared. I have actually told him that I dont wanna be with him anymore becaue I dont wanna go through it again if I am pregnant. He was never abusive until I got pregnant.Right now thinks are alright because I am not talking to him or trying to be by him.

[babygirl331975]

I was abused my my ex when i was pregnant. It only got worse. You are a wonderful person, and you dont deserve this. Pray to God for help, I did and got a wonderful man who let me get out!! Blessing will happen.

[jo929]

Get out now while you are still alive, he will just get worse, i have seen these things and you must get out, and do not wait just leave the first chance you get, you may not get another one  luck  jo

[jander]

Silla,
I stupidly stayed through abuse and did not report it. Now my back is against the wall and I am fighting (mentally) to get out.  

You are better than letting someone else hit you. Please do what is best for yourself.
Don't be stupid like me.  I know it is hard to report it, but you need to protect yourself and your kids.  It starts with you, but what happens when he hits your kids.  What happen when your kids think it is ok to hit you?

jander

[Tessabella82]

hi.. u should definitely this situation immediately.. think about ur son and ur possible future child if you're pregnant.. ur spouse will end up killing u.. children who had a traumatic childhood by witnessing that kind of violence sometimes end up an abuser themselves.. protect urself and ur son.. ur spouse's abusive nature will never change as he probably had a traumatic and abusive childhood himself.. hope this helps.. good luck 2 u

[margypops]

This will not change he will continue ,there is some reason some men get very abusive when their wives are pregnant and I have to say it , they kill their wives we have seen a lot in the papers, havent we, so leave... there is nothing else for me to say, you can file a report regarding him, he has assaulted you ..It is extremly bad for children to witness this kind of assault it will stay with them and traumatise them forever...

[teko]

You need to get out. You stayed with him after the first time and he took that as permission to do it again. Call family or even a shelter and get out or cll the police and have him put out the next time he gets out of control. This is not love, and you are not his possession.  These people do not know what love is. For your safety and that of your children, leave asap quickly and quietly and do not let him know where you are.