There's this guy that I know, and we used to like each other. We were really crushing on each other. He was 16 and I was 14. He would do things like hit me, punch me, trip me, kick me, etc. One time he pushed me so hard I fell over. He would also force me to do things. If he wanted me to do something that I didn't want to do he would force me to do it. He wouldn't let me leave places when I wanted to, things like that. As far as non-physical, he would do things like call me names and stuff ("you're a loser. Not really, but no seriously." as an example.) but he was really sweet too. If he thought I was upset or something he'd come over and see if I was okay. Well we've been talking again lately and I'm just worried that I'm in danger of potentially being abused. Were these signs of abuse or am I just being paranoid?