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1582246 tn?1298297545

Help me please?

I need help.
My dad is abusive.
Verbally.
Mentally.
&& physically.
I don't know what to do about it.
I'm only fifteen.
I can't do this on my own.
What should I do?
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Can you just go to school, do your work and avoid the guy? I had the exact problem with my dad, just don't ever believe you don't have value and worth because you do
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Don't believe the lies. You dad is abusive because someone may have abused him. Perhaps he is bullied at his workplace, but instead of directing his anger and frustration in the right direction, he takes it out on you. Everyone is worthy of respect and has inate dignity, don't forget it. There is certain respect you don't need to earn. My advise, try to distance yourself from the man if you can. It might sound extreme but go to college out of state, perhaps apply for an ROTC scholarship, this way you are not reliant on him past 18. I hate bullies, but you need to learn how not to be a victim, perhaps consider reading books on how to deal with bullies, in any facet of life you will need to confront such people, the time to start is now.
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How long has he abuse you?
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1617511 tn?1298688939
Do You Not Have Any Other Family You Could Stay With Or Anything Like That? But Please Do What Cheshchesh819 Is Saying, Tell Somebody That Can Do Something About It.

If You Want Somebody To Talk To Just Leave Me A Message, Hope Everything Gets Sorted Out (:
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You are both so young and you shouldnt be going through this my heart is breaking please use the numbers provided and both of you get the help you both need,where are your mothers?please just get the help.
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1419937 tn?1302557849
u could call...
1-800-656-HOPE (if sexual abuse)

1-800-4-A-CHILD (to reaport if u want 2)

or  1-800-273-TALK for free counseling an reasoures

(what i do) keep keys, peperspray, or "knife" at hand ;)

hope it helps im going through this 2 :/ here if u want 2 tlk :)
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1582246 tn?1298297545
I can't. :/ There's no where to go. I'm at the end of my rope. )X
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Then please get the help you need to get out of this.
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1582246 tn?1298297545
no
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Of course you are scared,i would be too,but doing this will only help you, you are scared living in this situation,there are people who can help you,it will be tough and it will be a long struggle but honestly do you want to live like this forever?
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13167 tn?1327194124
Go into your school counselor's office,  or nurse's office,  or if you have a favorite teacher you can confide in (or better,  both!) tell them when you see them.

Don't wander out into the snow tonight to find help.    Talk to trusted adults when you are at your school,  and they will help you and guide you in the right direction.  
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1582246 tn?1298297545
Scared
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1582246 tn?1298297545
Okay but I'm scarred. I life out in the middle of nowhere. /:
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Get out of this situation,go to your nearest police station and make an official complaint,this is illigal what he is doing to you and he must be stopped.
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I'm sorry. I didn't know that your father was abusing you. Go to the police if you have to. Get help. Call your local boys & girls club or YMCA or the police. Just get some help.
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I would tell someone immediately whether it be the school counselor a family member or someone else. You need to tell someone nobody deserves that!
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