Possibly raped

[verasti]

I am gay male.

4 weeks ago I attended a birthday of a friend at a gay club, after couple of hours of drinking I had way too much and I went black. I got very sick at the club and so one of my friends' buddies whom I don't know very well, it was the first time I met him took me home. I don't remember anything from the way from the club to my apartment. Next day I found myself in my bed wearing  my shirt and sweater I was wearing that night and my underwear. My question is if I would have been raped by this guy would i have felt something the next day? The last time I had receptive anal sex before this incident was about 6 months ago. Following the event a few days after I developed some sort of itching in my anus, which got me freaked out. I am thinking about getting tested since the idea that I was possibly raped would not leave my mind. Looking forward to your answers.

[TigerSwan1985]

definitely get checked out its always better to be safe than sorry. typically you would know but necessarily. I wish you luck and hope all is clear.

[lalila]

yeah please get tested for stds or for evidence of rape.  If you suspect you have been raped also contact the police.  Its totally possible and you're totally right for worrying.  Please get help.

[specialmom]

Oh, having sex with someone that is in a black out stage from drinking isn't consensual sex.  It would be impossible for it to be as you aren't in sound mind at the time.  Anyone that has sex with someone in this state is taking advantage.  That is my opinion anyway.  

To answer the posters question, I don't know if you'd notice having been raped or not.  I think that being tested would be prudent.  This is an old post and perhaps you have been by now.  

[Teenymini]

I feel like there's also the small chance that it could have been mutual sex considering you blacked out....?

[nel131373]

You would know and your underware would have been off.