I can't explain your husband's behavior, but are the doctors calling the paramedics liars who said when they arrived at the house, you were in the throes of a very severe seizure? Do the doctors who told you your injuries could not have come from a seizure aware that the paramedics witnessed it?
I've had a seizure - not as severe as yours - and afterward, you don't remember any of it at all.
Why didn't anyone in the hospital, after you told them you thought your whole family was dead, offer to help you get in touch with your family?
How have his actions been since?
I don't know if it's possible to prove that your husband hit you or not at this point. However, there will always be doubt on your part, and possibly on your family's part. One thing for certain. There's something wrong with a man that would leave screaming beside you while convulsing. and in a pool of blood to boot. This man has no capacity to care, or does not seem to care about you or have any respect for your life, or your family. I would leave him based on what you do know. and i would be very worried about him being left on his own with the baby, should there be an emergency. This can get complicated. To the point of trying to gain sole custody or supervised visitation, based on the statements of the paramedics.
It's obvious you cannot trust this man, and as we all get older, i wouldn't wait until you are advanced in age to test whether he can be a trusted partner in your joint health care. get out now. don't walk run.
Firstly, I am so sorry that this has happened to you. You need to go to a lawyer straight away. Do not leave your son alone with this man. Ask the paramedics if they are willing to testify in court as to how they found you and how your husband reacted. If they are willing to testify then you should press charges. You never mentioned what your parents said about all of this? Are they telling you to leave him?
Please get out now, the next time this happens you could be dead. You will never see your family or your child again. Don't let this happen.
Is your husband an addict?
Obviously he's addicted to cigarettes and that trumps anything else. So...who needs that ?
Im very sorry for the trauma youve experienced.
I would be very very leary of your husband. I would go to your local police department and ask them to look into it. They will be able to talk to the doctors and have them investigate the trauma to your head. They can tell how you got the skull damage.
I would NOT leave your child alone with him. Now for the question everyone else has been thinking......
How has your husbands behavior been in the past? Is/was he abusive? Menally, physically, emotionally? Has he had a previous history of domestic violence issues? How are things between you? Did things change drastically when your precious baby boy arrived?(i mean out of the normal changes)
Im sorry that you are going through this. It must be extreemly emotionally and mentally draining.
Well, the way he acted has no doubt in my mind that he did this to you, run with your child & don't look back until your day in court & his in prison! I'm curious too how your parents weren't concerned where you were & what they said about all this , he is most likely mentally sick & next time you might not be telling this story you might be dead, RUN ,PLEASE
I have a friend who also found herself in hospital with head injuries, Only there was a witness.... Her, now ex husband assured her she had tripped whilst drunk, but it turns out he had a histiry if violence against women and he had actually picked her up and slammed her head into the ground..... .trust your instincts and get away from this man as fast as you can.
Wow, what do your parents say? Why didn't the hospital staff offer to call your family??? I would get the **** away from that man. Heartless and no sense of compassion or caring for a baby. Run and never look back. Keep in mind the DA is probably investigating this. What was your husband like before this?
This is not normal behavior. that a loving caring husband and father would do. I think you already know the answer to this question. What really disturbs me is that there was not a report made to the police by the paramedics or the hospital. This is a very dangerous situation for both you and your child. The fact that he never visited you wile you were in ICU and never contacted your family. is a dead giveaway GET OUT