My 23 old son with BPD always calls me when he is having relationship problems. He is usually very upset and often is very angry. I talk with him and never turn him away because he has no one else he can talk to. Is this wrong for me to be there for him. I was told that this was emotional incest and I should not be supporting this type of relationshop with my son. I feel that I am only being his mother and he calls me when he needs someone to talk to. Can you help me with this?