This isnt a question,I am a just a wife whos heart has been ripped out.thrown on the floor and stomped on everyday by my alcoholic husband, the family of all addicts are afraid,shaky,agitated,sick to our stomaches,and ANY SYMPTON that you may go trough quitting!!!!,, I want you to know when you feel AA isnt working please remember to care about yourselfs,, WE can love someone who doesnt give us the options of making our lifes different, AT THIS VERY MOMENT my husband got out of work 2 hrs ago,I DONT KNOW IF HES AT A BAR dead,in jail BUT my heart wants him to be at AA, so please,when you choose to quit please remember your friend and family,we dont want you to quite because were powering tripping we asked because we LOVE YOU.