We see HIV related anxiety ALL the time.
For one, the "cut" situation was not a risk. HIV cannot remain active outside of the body, therefore any exposure you would have to fluids outisde of unprotected vaginal or anal sex, would not be a concern.
You recognized that you had a risk with the unprotected sex, and then proceeded to WAY over test. Your tests are 100% conclusive, you do NOT have HIV. NOTHING will affect production of antibodies for you, not getting blood drawn, donating blood, medications, nothing. You can be completely confident in your negative results.
That being said...I'm glad to see that you are addressing the anxiety with a professional. That's important. When a level of anxiety becomes disproportionate to the "worry", then it's time to get help.
You, along with most people, have an overinflated view of HIV. HIV is not like a cold. It literally requires unprotected sex, or sharing IV drug works to get it. Sexually speaking, in the heterosexual population, HIV is a pretty minute concern, as MOST people are not infected. Of course, that isn't to say you shouldn't be insisting on condoms for any and every episode of vaginal or anal sex, because you should be. I'm just trying to explain that most likely, this guy isn't even infected. Even his GF cheating on him doesn't raise his risk factor significantly. Also, there would be NO way someone living in the same house as an infected person (ie, the worry about your son)....could become infected, again, unless they were having sex with the infected person, or sharing IV drugs/works.
At this point, you need to put the idea of HIV behind you, and start focusing your energy on the anxiety treatment. One more time...you do NOT have HIV, you do NOT need more testing (I actually advise against testnig again....)...you have no worries in regards to HIV. ALL of the "symptoms" you described have nothing to do with HIV, more likely they were related to anxiety, or some common, garden-variety infection (colds, etc).
Good luck!
i forgot to say that all my test have come back negative
i forgot to ask because i have been getting this much blood out of my body so often and my body always having to make new cells. can this slow down the process of antibodies show up within the 3 months mark or could i have been stressing so much that i lowered my immune system to slow down antibody production. also the doctor has put me on prozac which was making me sick so i stopped taking that and now i'm on paxil 5 days now and i have been taking zanax for about 4 months now