I was in a relationship for nearly two years an year ago, which broke off when my ex hooked up with my best friend. This was during my post-graduation of two years, and happened in a hostel. My best friend was also my room mate.
Because my relationship was not going so well, I focused on my ex more than anything else, so even though I am a very vivacious personality as a whole, I did not participate in much events or stuff, and had a generally low profile throughout my post-grad.
My room mate on the other hand was mostly single, very popular and outgoing. She does not step back when it comes to flirting and is very confident of herself, whereas I am of the shy-personality types.
Everyone in college was aware of my relationship with my ex, and when after college he hooked up with her, I had thought people would shun her because that was the usual thing that happened. Our common friends confided in me that they were shocked by what she had done, and were not really warm to her, but didn't break off any links with her either.
Now, she's engaged to him, still popular and very happy.
We have a reunion of my post-grad class this year, and she's coming to it. It's at my hometown so, I will be right here for it. The thing is, most of the class is already her friend, and when she goes there, I know people will gravitate toward her rather than me, and I will be left all alone..
I am over my ex, and I don't want to get back with him again anymore. But it hurts me that she is so happy even after what she's done.. She literally tore my life apart, and it's been very difficult to get back to my feet.. And she's going to be here again.
I am just getting very depressed by it all...
She came down once last couple of months back 'to justify herself to me' she said, but I didn't speak to her as I can't trust her again, and I don't want to forgive her and speak to her again anymore.. And yet I miss her friendship..
What do I do?