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886189 tn?1265941191

Bad News

Well Ladies, it seems this pregnancy is going to be short-lived for me.  I started having some back pain last week and I thought I was passing a kidney stone.  I called my ob for some reassurance that whatever pain I was in was not hurting my baby.  He told me to come in for an ultrasound to double check everything.  Needless to say there was no heartbeat (we had seen one 2 weeks before) and the baby had stopped growing.  We went back this morning for confirmation.  My ob has been wonderful to me and I really could not ask for anything more from a doctor.  I have decided to schedule a dnc  for next week.  It took so long to get to this point I can't believe that this is happening again.  I am trying so hard to stay strong but sometimes it is so hard.  I had actually come to terms with the fact that I might never be a mom or never have kids of my own.  It seems so cruel that this is happening now.  Even though I don't post too much, you ladies are wonderful and I am truly lucky to have yall as a support group.
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741741 tn?1294284010
Jenny, I am so sorry! Nobody should ever have to go through this!!
Try to be positive and stay strong, (I hate it sometimes when people say this....but)
All good things take time!
***HUGS***
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so sorry i had a tear to my eye reading this xx
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1211078 tn?1277494569
I'm so sorry! Try to stay strong.
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773214 tn?1295135069
Jenny I am so sorry to hear of this.  My prayers are with you.  Get your rest and know that we are all here for you...
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803467 tn?1341934706
OMG Jenny,  I'm so so so very sorry sweety. Although I wish there were words i could say i know there are none that would help ease the pain you must be going through...Take care of yourself my dear and remember we are ALWAYS here for you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
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886189 tn?1265941191
I just wanted to thank all of you for your prayers and well wishes.  I had my dnc this afternoon and just vegging on the couch.   I have so many unanswered questions.  Now I get to play the waiting game to see when af finally arrives.  Again thank yall for thinking of me and being here thru this difficult time.
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778044 tn?1299542934
I'm so sorry to hear about your news.  I'll continue to pray for you and hope you are able to have kids someday!!! HUGSSS!!!!
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1031343 tn?1287386579
im so sorry u are having to go through this, you are in my thoughts and prayers
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1238415 tn?1297425382
So sorry. I know there is nothing to say to make it any better right now. My thoughts are with you.
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991222 tn?1333990733
Jenny- I'm very sorry you are having to go through this.  I will be praying for you and your loved ones.
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1128483 tn?1277340286
I'm so sorry your going through this again!  My thoughts and prayers are with you!
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1024452 tn?1323708817
I'm so sorry you have to go through this!  My prayers are with you!
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628735 tn?1273875777
my heart goes out to you! I know how it is to not have one of your own yet... its the hardest thing in the world to have this happen again! I wish your heart ache could be taken away right now! you are in my thoughts and prayers!
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So sorry Jenny, (((hugs)))
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1055658 tn?1300845290
I am so sorry you're going through this. {{{{Hugs}}}}
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693804 tn?1304720474
Oh Jenny, i'm so sorry sweetie. No words I can say will lessen your pain. Please know that we are here for you when you need us. Sending you prayers, strength and a big hug..              Lori
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