You could start the lamictal again for now. 5 mg is a very small dose, and it takes a long time to titrate up (I started at 25 and am now at 200, but the starting dose is lower for children). The thing is, your GP is right to be cautious. If she is bipolar, most antidepressants (the SSRIs) could send her into a manic episode, which is exactly what you don't want. If you insist on antidepressants, wellbutrin is supposed to be the least likely to cause such a switch (it has a rather unique mechanism for an antidepressant), but it *can* worsen anxiety, so it's not for everyone. It tends to be good if depression comes with low energy, as it is activating.
Lamictal is sometimes tried in people with treatment-resistant depression (which, to be fair, could be BP masquerading as repeated depression). It's very good at dealing with the depressive side of bipolar, and it takes a while to get to the right dose, so it might be worth following the first psychiatrist's titration instructions starting from the beginning, since you usually increase once every 2 weeks, and the target dose for BP (at least in adults) is 100-200 mg.
I know the idea of your daughter having bipolar is not something you want to be true, but the insomnia and hyperactive behavior combined with depressive symptoms is very suggestive of the diagnosis.
And weaver71 is right about journalling--try to get her to write about how she feels (and ensure it's confidential, either in book form or in a private blog or password protected word doc, whatever makes her feel safe), and try to get her to track her moods. You can find worksheets for it online that you can print out. These techniques are elements of certain therapies, and the mood charts will be very useful when she does see that new person. The journalling might also help blow off some steam and internal pressure for her.
I just want to say, I went 42 years without being treated, it didn't kill me. Your daughter is lucky to have you, she has a huge advantage there. My parents thought I was just rebellious and didn't really mind. I finally found a good therapist and doctor, it took me over a year of searching. I am still waiting to get meds, but one thing about bipolar, if you don't like the way you feel, just wait awhile, it will change. I find writing on these forums helps me, maybe she could try it. Like Virginia Wolfe says, "If you want to know how sloppy your thoughts are, just write them down." I hope you find some relief for her soon, trust me, I know how she feels.
I don't even know how to get decent meds. I called and got an appt with another child psychiatrist but it's not until Oct 21. There is no way she can wait that long. I just don't know what else to do. She needs something for her depression NOW.
Thank you all for the replies.
I am so confused and trying to sort things out and trying to get a doctor who will listen. So difficult! I appreciate each reply I got to my problem. I just hate seeing my child in so much pain. And feeling like the dr's won't do anything. All because one dr said it's bipolar......therefore the other dr's can't think for themselves.
Although the doctors are pros, what people failed to realize with my
disorder was that I did not have episodes everyday, day to day, or week
to week. From what is sounds like, your daughter is only having episodes
when there is actually something going on in her life that stresses her out.
I would say take the first step to see as psychologist. To help deal, and
sort out the things that are happening in her head. Because then, IF
there is something psychologically wrong, the psychologist will refer you
to a psychiatrist with their own notes attached. So that way you aren't
just walking in getting prescribed meds by a blind doctor. Mental
medicine is not always obvious.
Trust me, waiting for meds and taking the first step I mentioned is
WAY better than having to deal with a child whos meds are wrong
and actually making things worse.
Best of luck.
It's possible that both are going on. There's a theory about mental illness that says you need both the predisposition for it and some sort of life stressor to set it off. See if you can find out if there's any bipolar, schizophrenia, or depression in the bio family. If there is, then it makes it a lot more likely that your daughter is bipolar and the stress of finding out about and meeting her bio family is what triggered it.
Counseling is a good idea no matter what, but I think she's old enough to have some input on the medication decision. Make sure her therapist educates her about bipolar, and consider going to some group educational therapy sessions to learn more about it and how to cope. If after that you don't think the bipolar fits, at least the coping skills should be applicable in general. Going to groups for emotional trauma support might be useful too.
I personally love my lamictal, but I'm 23 (was just shy of 23 when I started it), so I was old enough to do the research and make the decision on my own, and was also severely depressed, beyond the reach of just therapy.
You might want to see a therapist too if you can afford it. You're going through a lot of stress right now over this, and you feel helpless about it. A good therapist might help you cope with your stresses and make sure your needs are met.
Often bipolar and trauma work together. Trauma causes many of the symptoms, but mania is the difference. What does your daughter think? Has she been educated on bipolar and regular depression? At 15 it's hard to tell, I couldn't have been diagnosed that young, my hormones where through the roof. I saw lots of violence, drugs, trauma, etc... as a kid also, so I alway thought it was about my childhood. I am BP1, so it became clear after I had kids. CBT counseling helps a lot, bipolar or not, but a good therapist may be able to get a better diagnosis over time.
I forgot to mention that she now has some anxiety and she said she feels panicky.