--Hello, Hello To You All!!
God knows I have my own issues - but I am truly concerned about my daughter, Stephanie. Several years ago, she came up to me quietly and began telling me about peculiar things that she was experiencing. She spoke about someone waking her at night by knocking on her front door .. and she heard "people" - she didn't know whom, but they were talking about her .. watching everything she did. There were other things but one day she asked me to carefully look outside the window ... I asked why? She told me that the people that lived across from her where following her everywhere ... and they always drove a green van. I thought it was some kind of a joke ... but I could see on her face that she was truly frightened! She saw 'them' everywhere we went. She always saw them driving nearby or lurking someplace. She was already in counseling, but she wouldn't tell anyone there what she was going through. In Iess than 2 weeks she was seeing and hearing alot of things. She began leaving the house in the middle of the night, she would wander, sometimes for miles while my husband followed her. I had to turn the bolt locks inside the house and lock us in ... she was adamant that she had to leave ... but when I asked where, she wouldn't tell me ... or she simply didn't have an answer. She became 'manic' in her restlessness .. she would run back and forth, from the front door the the back for 20 minutes and then collapse from .. exhaustion. Her 'shrink' was on vacation - no one would contact him ... and I gave those people at the mental health facility absolutely no rest! I called and called ... and demanded that they DO something!! After approx. 10 days of watching my daughter pace and scream and fight to be released to go "someplace" - a trio of people showed up to speak with her. They had to determine whether she was a threat to herself, etc. Since she was legally an adult, the state wouldn't allow family to 'commit' her .. only they could decide that. It didn't take more then 15 minutes and the ambulance was on it's way. I will never forget how she screamed and cried as they strapped her into the gurney ... she promised she would "be good" if I didn't make them take her away. Stephanie has mild cerebral palsy and she doesn't care for social situations or strangers ... that's why her wanting to 'go somewhere' was so not her! -- In the hospital she still saw the 'green van' people .. other people that weren't really there came to 'visit' as well. But boy, she wouldn't have anything to do with me. To this day she blames me for being taken to the hospital. And she will not talk about it. Any of it. She says it didn't happen.
The Doctor at the hospital had no definitive diagnosis. He didn't believe it was schizophrenia ... he wasn't even willing to say that she had had a pychotic break of some kind. Her shrink came back from vacation and began putting her on ... antipychotic's. Hmmm, imagine. She is currently on Zyprexa. She has gone from a size 0-1 to a size 14 and has struggled to get her weight down - which she has somewhat. But she doesn't seem like the same person she was before. It's as though she has mentally regressed. She asks the same questions over and over, as though she doesn't believe the first 3 family members who gave her the same answer. She's unsure of her choices. She's not happy anymore .. not really. She has NO friends ... she makes no social connections outside of her immediate family. I can see she's lonely ... and she's obcessive. If she 'see's' or 'hears' anything these days, she doesn't speak of it. She gets angry if we mention it at all. She doesn't even tell her Doctor or her counselor.
I am concerned about the meds that she is taking. They seem to have taken her personality away. And sometimes she becomes hostile ... mean ... and she'll smile when she creates alot of frustration. I remember that she used to do that when she was much younger ... but I thought it was just her way of tyring to bug her sisters. I wonder what would happen if she stopped the antipychotics. I have never been satisfied with a lack of a real diagnosis. She doesn't seem to 'fit' into the classic manic-depressive 'ping-pong' type behavior. BUT....???
I thank you for putting up with my l-o-n-g story ... thank you, thank you !! I would so-o appreciate your idea's, suggestions .. feedback. I don't think her needs are being treated properly - I want to help her find herself again!
Bless you all for your help and concern ! Goodnight ... Well, actually Good Morning now!