I don't know what to do I have bipolar II, and have recently been through a bad "depressive/low" period, i have felt really bad about myself and have been really really low. My husband had an affair which I found out about two months ago and up until about three weeks ago I thought I was okay and dealing with it really well. However, the last three weeks has been hell to say the least. I work for myself and have my own typing business, my only source of income at the moment is working for a lady who has her own legal practice with myself and two other ladies working there. I am finding it hard at the moment because she has at times been really rude to me, and very sarcastic and talking down to me etc. Last night I emailed her my invoice to pay, and found out today that she was actually there at the time, but chose to ignore it, I have now not been paid and although we will be okay over the next few days, it is the principle of it! What I think makes it worse for me is the fact that she is aware of my bipolar.
I am finding that I am focussing a lot on this issue, which irritates me, it doesn't help that I have also been quite sick for the last two weeks, and on antibiotics plus my toy boys have been really sick, so we have been couped up in the house for the last two weeks. My husband has been working really late nights, and away a lot, which of course has got my mind going ten to the dozen. I am finding that I am not sleeping at night although I am exhausted because I am sick with a sinus infection, having just had a chest infection and onset of asthma. But am lying awake chewing over both my husband and this lady I work for.
I don't know whether to cut my losses and move away from that environment, or just to count to 10, bide my time and perhaps somethign else will turn up. It seems everytime something finishes, something else comes along to fill that gap.
I am just really unhappy and finding that I am more unhappy at the mometn, than I am happy! Plus I don't have a lot of family support, and my husband isn't here at the moment anyways!
Thank you for letting me rant.