please help me find a program i just got out of jail for domestic violence against my girlfriend of 3 years i really want to change my life i need anger manegment and or medication i dont want to be the guy that physically hurts the most important person in my life its not the first time i hit my girlfriend and i cant stand it my outbursts are getting more frequent and it is scaring the hell out of me and her i need help asap ill be perfectly fine and happy as anything then the smallest little thing triggers these fits of extreme violence i cant take it i dont want to be like this how can i get help and where PLEASE HELP ME