Hi, I also agree with what everyone else has said but my Bp is made worse by my hormones.. half of my episodes occur at that time,. I've had hormonal tests because I had symptoms of menopause, they all came back fine.. it was the Bp mixed with PMS! Sooo not a good place! It sounds like you have a lot to deal with right now, so you definitely need some help, good luck hun :-)
Hey, It kind of sounds to me like hormones. the hot flushes and shaking and having mood swings/anger can be related to a hormone imbalance. I would suggest talking to your doctor, they will be able to tell you more than me. And i think therapist is good place to start and i agree with Lily.
Maybe take some time out for yourself, try and relax if you can and enjoy yourself even with the small things. what ever you like doing, make time for yourself if you don't already. :)
well I think if your therapist is any good he/she willbe able to determine if you need added help like maybe meds....lily