There is surgical recovery - and there is hormonal recovery.
If your hormones are not being managed correctly, you will have a lot of mood swings.
Are you being managed by a neuro-endocrinologist? Have your hormones been tested since your surgery or have you been told something silly like you need 6 months to level out? You need meds, and you need them now and it will change constantly so you need to me monitored. Your thyroid is probably way off at a minimum. Some of the hormone issues can be dangerous so you really need to get to a doctor.
i am going threw the same thing. its been almost 3yrs since my crainotomy. i get very upset over anything. im so moody my hubby told me if i wasent moody he wouldent know me.i do have a little memory slips. i have really bad migraines, that makes them worse.i have been to a pituitary endo , but he says my levels arent low enough for meds. my labs are allways the first number on the normal chart. i spend my time trying to "be nice." i was allways a happy nothing bothered me person. rumpled is this going to be my normal?