Stress increasing while waiting

[seadraem]

Has anyone noticed while waiting for biopsy results that the stress increases exponentially once you hit the days you may get a response? I was ok yesterday - wasn't really stressing that much, although my abdomen has been iffy all week. Test results are due in today thru Friday and today I'm staring at my phone and stressing completely.

[mickiej]

Hey...I have not had my biopsy  yet ..go Monday..and I am experiencing a lot of stress...usually feel like I am going to throw up...sorry...I am finding that if I keep busy that helps and I pray a lot...this  comforts me too.  I will be praying for you that you hear good news Friday...Try to be positive...hang in there....and get away from the phone.
mickiej

[ilovelucy54]

Hi   I am in the boat with you.  I had the biopsy yesterday, my doctor said it she would know by Thurs or Friday.  I have some new calcifciations they were unsure about.   I am a nervous wreck.   I feel the same way you do.
Maybe we can calm each other down!

[seadraem]

What type of biopsy are you having done? I've had both a vacuum assisted uultrasound guided core biopsy, and a surgical biopsy (inscisional), which was the latest one.

[madgeOwens]

Ok I am sick to my stomach, nothing I eat sets well with me and I thought I had a flu. My biopsy was yesterday.  Mine was the stereotatic type.  I have butterfly bandage instead of stitches, Have to wear a bra for support until mit quits hurting.  I had a binder on entire chest for 24 hrs.  I am nautious constantly, so maybe I am stressed as much as I am trying not to be.

[mamaboulet]

It's a total stressfest. Just thinking about the possibility of going through it again this year is making me crazy. Whether you get malignant or benign results, everybody seems to agree that waiting for biopsy results is the WORST. Crossing my fingers that this year I don't get called back for more mammos, followed by US, followed by biopsy. I know some women go through this year after year.

[madgeOwens]

As stressful as the waiting is,I cannot imagine it is worse than hearing the words its malignant, That is after all what we are stressed about.  The waiting stinks for sure.  I don;'t wish it on anyone.

[mamaboulet]

I've seen many women on the breast cancer sites who said even finding out that they have cancer wasn't as bad as the waiting, because at least they knew what they were dealing with. Even breast cancer veterans say that waiting for test results is the worst of the worst. It *****.

[madgeOwens]

I hope I don't have to find out what thats like.

[seadraem]

Me too.. This is my second round waiting on the same mass. My original doc (well, his Nurse Practitioner) interpreted the core biopsy results as "mass is benign" and left it at that. No follow-up scheduled or anything. When I went to another doctor for a second check - she sent me to this surgeon, who said the original results didn't mean the mass was benign - it meant all they got was normal breast tissue, so they missed the mass entirely. So now I wait again... I've been sick to my stomach all week since the surgery - was trying not to be stressed but I think it's catching up with me.  I just want to KNOW!!!  Nuff stress for the night - good night ladies and thank you for your good wishes!  ((((((((((HUGS))))))))) to all of my fellow "wait-ers"!!

[madgeOwens]

I know what you mean. I actually thought I had a bug, but after reading other comments in here I know its stress.  I feel like I am holding my breath at different times during the day I have to remind myself to breathe.....when the biopsy was done yesterday I was having a hard time getting a breath and a deep breath....one for laying on my abdomen on that metal table for so long and the other was nerves I am sure, but because of my age they thought I was going to have a heart attack....can't blame them for thinking that I must have looked ill too....I think I held my breath then too haha....I can barely wait for the call........I know it will be ok...I am just being silly.

[ilovelucy54]

I work 3rd shift, so it kind of took my mind off my waiting... until I came home.  I get in at 4:15am, so I am so tired, physically & mentally.  I have to sleep at least until 12 noon.  My thing is when my breast surgeons calls....this waiting is the worst.  All of you will be in my prayers..
Jo    

[ilovelucy54]

Good news here,  Dr called said NO CANCER, but there were a few pre-cancerous cells.  I will have to have a procedure to remove that .  I feel like a new woman, this has been going on for about 6 weeks.  I will always be very vigilant about my mammograms, etc!   I will check in to see how the rest of you made out.  
Thank you!
Joanne

[madgeOwens]

Oh thats great news! Thats really wonderful.  I still didnt get the call.....ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
this is terrible.............
CALL ALREADY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[seadraem]

Hang in there with me! We'll get thru this. I got thru it once - the second time is a little easier but the doc said 3-5 days after and the biopsy was last Friday morning so I'm hanging in the best I can. I think my husband is getting impatient with me. "So is THAT all that has you stressed"... grr... He's great but sometimes...

[ilovelucy54]

Thank you.....you are both in my thoughts & prayers...I think the waiting IS the worse...even now, I have been so worried for so long  (6 weeks) about this, I have to remind myself-things are okay.    I will check in and see how you guys made out.  
Take care,
Joanne

[madgeOwens]

Still waiting since Tuesday for pathology report. I think I may barf.

[seadraem]

Here with you! I called yesterday to make sure I hadn't missed a call, and they called me back this morning to say "Sweetie, I'm sorry but your results are not in yet. I should have them today though...".

They'll come - as my cubicle neighbor keeps telling me - what good is it doing you to stress. The answer won't come any quicker. So I try to listen to her - I say try...

[madgeOwens]

Yes I just called also to see if they forgot me, but they said they will call either way. I was hoping to know before the weekend. Guess not though....Let me know how you make out. Good luck!!

[marcy5]

My prayers are with the both of you.  I wish there was a way to eliminate the stress that we have to go through when we have to wait for the results.  I know I used to tell myself it will be fine or even if  it is BC it will be okay.  I might be fine for 10 minutes, but then the stress would go through my entire body.  What I finally did to help ease a couple of hours, I rented some funny movies.  Nothing serious and/or too intense.  Just funny.  So if you have any favorite movies that will make you laugh, try watching them.  Because when you are waiting, if you can get any amount of peace, it makes that time go a little faster.   Good luck and God bless you both.

[mamaboulet]

hey, watch that show, Mythbusters!  Nothing like a couple of dingbat guys blowing up stuff to take your mind off biopsy waiting.
And take an epsom salt bath. Magnesium has sedative properties and is really good for you.

[madgeOwens]

I have never submerged entirely into epsom salts hahaha always thought there were certain orifices that would notexactly like salts hahaha.ok now I am getting weird.........Gilda is on FNC now maybe I will try and watch that.........ugh.....
Tuesday...Wednesday,,,,,,Thursday.....Friday....now the darn week end ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh  why don;t they hurry up

[seadraem]

Try to have a good weekend with me - I didn't hear either. In fact, I called them at the end of the day and got "Oh - I was just getting to your papers. Nope, we haven't heard yet. I'll call them and call you back."

No call... So now the weekend. I'm gonna go play a game on my computer - they're pretty mindless and may take my mind off it for a while.

[ilovelucy54]

Hi everyone,
It's funny but even though I got a "no cancer" phone call from my dr, I still seem to have this lingering & vague anxiety.  I guess all these weeks worrying have taken it's toll.  
I really do apprieciate all of you!  My family and friends seemed to think I was over reacting, but it's easy to say when  it's not your boobs they are biospying.  What I plan to do is to take better care of myself and hopefully this anxious feeling about my health will fade.  
I am thinking of all of you still waiting...you're not alone, we are all here for support!
Joanne

[madgeOwens]

It always helps somehow to know other people are having those same anxious feelings too.  Everyone tells themselves its nothing and it will come back negative but in the back of your mind you are thinking what if it is something.............we are all doing the same thing and its nice to know we are all NORMAL.