my kitten (3 months old) had (has) ear mites. I am using ear miticide, after 9 days of use, cats ears are irritated, mite (crusty) residue is at least as bad if not worse, and inside the kittens ears, the skin is scaled like a bad sunburn and flaking and ears in general are very tender and redish. is it a bad reaction, or something else, and is there anything like aloe vera I may have around the house to help her out?