I am going to ask a question about sex, just so nobody freaks out--I have no intention of making anybody uncomfortable.
I am a 27 year old gay man with mild cerebral palsy, which mainly affects my left side. I am very mobile and even run marathons, but I have never been good at sex--to the point where I cannot even get into very many positions and where it takes me a LONG time to finish. Without trying to be too graphic, I tend to need to resort to my partner's hands finishing the job, because it is hard to maintain an erection for me. I don't know if this is just a problem related to me personally, or if other people have issues as well. Any advice on how to make it easier or anything like that would be helpful, too. I met somebody very special and want to be as able-bodied as possible. I know that this is, in the grand scheme of things, far down on the list of concerns, and I do not mean to trivialize. Thanks.