Hi. My 3 1/2 year old daughter is generally very well behaved, but lately her mood changes have gotten way out of hand. She of course has the normal behavior of testing me, saying no to requests and all that. But in the last month when we tell her to do something she doesn't want to do, like go to bed or that its time to leave the park, her anger has exploded. She will scream bloody murder, hit, kick, throw anything she can, bite, hide and not listen to any authority (like a lifeguard telling her not to run.). When it comes to going to bed I have gotten to the point of walking out of her room and holding her door shut because I need a break and i want her to stay in her room, but she kicks and claws at her door screaming. I can't get my husbands help because she wont let him do anything with her. Everything is "not you, i want mommy!!" Which I understand because I stay home with her and my son. But at random times, especially when she is angry she will say "I dont love daddy". Even when he isn't home. That concerns me alot. Like I have said, she is normally well behaved. She seems mature for her age alot of times compared to others in her playgroup. But when she loses her temper shes like a wild animal. Sometimes her fits will be over something as simple as saying Im sorry or thank you to a friend. I will remind her to say one of those and we will have a 30 min crying, screaming, throwing, complete meltdown. And it doesn't matter who is around, like a group of her friends or in public. Im at my wits end with her. Her sleep has been going downhill also. When I try to get a nap out of her she will rip all the bedding off her bed. Been waking up at night crying, sneaking into bed with my husband and I, which we have never allowed. I have an almost 1 1/2 year old son who trys mocking her behavior sometimes when shes acting this way. I do everything I can to be consistent with her, when she acts up she gets things taken away, when she gets up at dinner, shes done eating. All those except time outs. I dont know how to make that work with her because she will not stay in them, so i have started sending her to her room because we do not have toys in the kids rooms, only books are allowed in bedrooms. Is this normal for her to be so angry all of a sudden? People tell me its a phase, but its becoming more and more often. Please help!! I dont want to be fighting with her all the time and I want to be in a good mood again.