I am a single mother of a newly 7 year old daughter who is also an only child . Her father's involvement in her life is currently and since she has been a year old is maybe once a month and the longest length of time he has had no contact was for a 4 month period . Just giving you a bit of background info . My daughter and I moved in with my parents 2 years ago due to addiction issues . I put myself into detox a few days after her 3rd birthday but she and I at the time lived alone ( only her 1 year of life her daddy lived with us ) very comfortably in a beautiful rental home on the water . Due to my previous addiction I was finacially bankrupt . I have my own business and have for 22 years and currently . My financial situation is currently back where it's suppose be and even more . I am recovered now but her father is actively using and lives in an enviourment not suited for children . He and I get along good , and I do whatever I have to do to insure that she has some contact with him but always I am present . Although she is only 7 I am as honest as I can be in explaining her fathers illnes . She loves her daddy and only encourage contact . With that said ,,My daughter is a very well behaved , polite , well mannered child . Still wetting the bed . 3 times or do a week . And in the last maybe year or so she gradually has been using manipulation ( I think ) to control her surroundings . She manipulates me to the degree that I think she hates me . She tells me all the time that she wishes she had a better mother , she won't go to sleep , she majes me lay next to her for at least 11/2 until she falls asleep . She is angry at me often . It just aweful to go threw the abuse of her every night guilting me ? She is very spoiled but like I said she is do good except for when it comes to wanting all of me all of the time 100%. Even get very angry if nice to her friend ? Her cousin? , my mother , anyone that I even spend time with ? I work but am very good at balancing both . Am I thst evil ? Does she have abandommet issues , anxiety , or is she just a spoiled brat.. Lost ??