I have another caf next week see what comes of that then I will be ringing docs again I need something done desperately I'm losing patience now. It's not doing my son any good or me. It stresses me out and makes me anxiousness all the time. Thanks for your help tho x
If you aren't happy with the progress his doctors and therapists are making tell them that, calmly. If that doesn't change anything go find a new doctor. Don't give up!
Sleep is extremely important. Definitely try the melatonin.
You need to find out what is going on at school. Sit down and talk with his teacher. A doctor will never help you unless you can show problems going on in two places. He has now been at school long enough that the teacher should have a good idea what is going on. Then find a good child psychologist and get him tested.
Iv took everything away from him that he tries to brake but he doesn't care. Iv spoke to the doctor about everything but not getting anywhere with it ATM I'm going through children & young people service & school nurse & doctors plus other professional help but I don't seem to be getting any where at all. Its horrible to say but sometimes I feel like giving up with discipline as I just can't control him. This behaviour is an every day thing for him he may have an hour of being good but it does never last long x
If he is throwing things at his tv and Xbox you should just simply take them away, immediately. He should only get privileges if he is being good. He doesn't seem to understand that there are consequences for his actions.
The sleep loss will definitely affect his behavior. Have you spoken to his doctor about this? There are no pediatric sleep medications but your doctor could help you figure out a good sleep routine and melatonin dose. Have you thought about seeking private therapy for him? He sounds like he needs a lot of one on one help.
He has ups & downs in school sometimes try's to push the teacher too far. He's not as bad in school to what he is at home. He's only just moved school 5months ago he likes this school better then the last one. The last school had real problems but wouldn't admit to the people at our car meetings. They described him as perfect, my argument was how can a school describe a boy perfect when they pulled me in every other day about fighting my final straw was he stabbed a little boy in the hand with scissors then cut the boys jumper! How could they say he's perfect?! Iv been having behaviour troubles from him being 3 things have only got worse & I feel totally useless not knowing what's wrong or how I can help him with the problem. Sleeping isn't any good at all he's only just fell asleep & it's 2am we have 5 hours to sleep. It's getting beyond a joke. Thanks for replying x
How does he do in school - does he behave there?
It's really hard to tell what's going on with him - whether he is angry about his life, or is repeating things that have been said to him, or whether he might have a mental illness or behavior disorder.
Is his biological father mentally ill?