As a child

[daveoreno]

has any one experence  seeing things in the dark as a child can not explaine ?

[momtotn]

OMG wrong thread I am so sorry please ignore the above post. I was frustrated with a group of spankers....

[momtotn]

I am shocked no one has mentioned testosterone rages and for girls a mix of raging hormones. Boys start getting "testosterone blurts" around 7. Check the hair on your sons legs...has it grown, is it more corse.darkened? Think of how we are (ladies) before our periods. Most I know aren't fun to be around. Now mix that with being controlled by parents, teachers, maybe bullied at school ,never feeling good enough because kids today don't get to be kids and relax once in awhile. My son too has a few tantrums (which is why I came here) but giving him a safe place to "let it out" usually does it. If it turns into a rage then I remind him of the boundaries and call time out. Mostly the last things these kids want or need frankly is to be left alone in judgment with these huge overwhelming feelings. I am not of course talking about tourettes/asperger/etc. We the adults are supposed to show them how to do it....  handle the big feelings. And for those that spank??? well I guarantee there is NOTHING worse for a child's self esteem...and is lingers even if you are no longer spanking. The rage that comes from being hit when the whole entire reason the child is raging is usually to get attention or has leaked his rage from being hit (oh spanked if you need to somehow soften the action) Hitting is hitting ....you will only get fear and rage if you hit when a child is in need of guidance to learn to handle big feelings. Maybe because you can't handle his /her feelings you have to gain power by spanking??? I say you are the ones in need of therapy and meds...and fast before you ruin your childs life. No need to answer just do it... you know you are wrong. I won't be coming back to this board so don't bother trying to justify the unjustifiable or answer this post. The only out I can give you is you were obviously abused and are just passing it on...nice legacy...why don't you try something else you can actually be proud of.
The rest who might be interested in the fact that every child gets raging hormones around this age can investigate that since you are obviously open to helping not hitting a child in pain(rage is pain hidden if you don't get it hitters)

[hazeizgod]

my child suffers from this now. hes ten years old. all i can tell him is that he needs glasses and sees shapes and makes them out to be things they are not because he has bad eyes. i have no idea what else to think. do you know what it is or if this is common?

[allmymarbles]

I am not sure what you mean. But if it is seeing faces in wrinkled bed covers, or something like that, I think it is common. They scare themselves. Or they get scared and see the faces. It is more or less like a waking nightmare.

[margypops]

Do you mean spirit things?we have a group on the para normal if this is what you mean ...