It is hard to know what to do, for sure.
Keep volunteering - that will earn you points at the school.
Parenting is just hard. I don't want to be ugly, but just WAIT til you have a teenager!!! Ow ow ow.
thanks. thats kind of what I have been doing. It is hard to know what to do. I try to volounteer as much as I can but don't want to be overbearing to him at school. Good grief I thought it would be easier when he started school. HAH
Sometimes you have to just suck it up if you have a bad teacher - and that's an important life lesson! He's half way through the year and if he can stick it out, it will be a learning lesson for him. If he's being singled out and picked on, that's a different thing, but if by and large she's just kind of clueless, I'd let it go.
My oldest had to "sign the book" one day - and he came home teary eyed, saying he had to sign the book for talking in the restroom. I kept saying you did NOT have to "sign the book" for talking in the boys bathroom, what else happened. Finally I had to email the teacher and say I want to support her classroom plan, but I need to know the specifics of the misbehavior so I can reinforce it at home. Sure enough, he had talked in the boys bathroom.
I just said honey, suck it up. She was weird, did this to everyone, just suck it up and get through it.
Sheesh.
Best wishes with the rest of the year.