children sexual behaviour

[concernedmum24]

i recently just caught my  6 year old son and his friend doin rude things to eachother in his friends bedroom. This is the second time this has happened. im starting to worry. is this normal?

I dont really know if you can tell from an early age but i believe his friend is gay he is 6. He's very girly and camp, and says when hes older he wants to be a girl, he has a lot of issues too, his dad died a year ago from a drugs overdose seen a lot of things he should  not of at a young age. Hes said things to my son about putting his willy in his bum "lets be gay" how dos he know all these things??

I am shocked at what they have been doin tho and am wondering why my son is joining in with him and not telling me what he is asking him to do. i genuielly believe it is led by his friend.
Im just confused why my son dosnt say no thats disgusting and come tell me? dos he like it? is he gay? not only that i feel as though my child is being abused in a way. I know the other boy is only 6, but my son is innocent and shouldnt know these things. This boy is a lot taller and is nasty to him most of the time. They only see eachother cause me and his mum are close. Shes not fazed by this she thinks its normal. So shouldnt i be? am i overreacting???

[jeninky30]

I would not let your child around this boy without them being in your supervision.  My boys were exposed to behavior like this from their cousins a few years ago.  Thankfully my oldest was old enough to know that those things were not right and he told my father in law about it.  In our case, the cousins had found some x rated videos and were trying to do what they saw on the movies.  It sounds like your child is just going a long with this because the friend tells him too.  If you cannot end the friendship, do not let them be alone.  And please have an honest and open discussion with your son and explain that his private parts should not be touched by anyone else, unless it is a doctor and you are there.  Let him know that this behavior is not appropriate, but do not try to embarrass him or belittle him for what has already happened.  You are right to feel like your child has been abused.  Even though the other boy is only 6, he is obviously more sexually advanced than your son and is taking advantage of his innocence.

[CharleneA]

Some one plz help me. Today my five ur old daughter was playing over the road in a friends house wiv a boy aged seven and when she came home she told me that they were playing a game of rude dares. During this game there had both pulled their pants down and were kissing each other then the seven year old boy touched my five ur old on her privates of the top of her knickers. This is not the first time things like this have happened between the pair of them but cause it was over a year ago we thought there would be ok to be left alone. I feel like a bad mother for trusting them together but like I said I was over a  year ago   when it first happened and then it's happened again today. I just don't know wat to do

[margypops]

Small children need supervision, make sure you are around ..it wont happen if adults are in the vicinity......

[GeeBee247]

when i was younger about 5 i had a friend and me n him did some inappropriate stuff... all children will do these kind of things out of curiosity if they are away from parents and get a chance. just keep them close before they get too old and complain..