I am a mother of 8 year old twins (boy and girl) and a little girl who is turning 6 today. This has been an exceptionally rough year on all of us. I left their dad in February due to his escalating alcoholism (he was beginning to get scary), we stayed at my mother's house for about 6 months, and have now moved into our own home. I left their dad's house with nothing but a few clothes and necessities. We have virtually nothing, so there really is not much to "take away" from them when they get out of control and misbehave. I try putting them in corners, but sometimes they pull the "stick my arms and legs out so Mom can't get me through the door to put me in the corner" trick. Anyway, I'm off subject, I suppose. Lately it seems that one of the biggest problems is the rivalry between my son and my smallest child. We'll be riding down the road in the car when I'll hear a blood-curdling scream, turn around and see that my son is flogging her. When asked what is going on, he replies that "she is reading aloud and giving me a headache" or "she is singing and giving me a headache". The poor girl can't do anything in her own home or vehicle without "annoying" him or "giving him a headache". So, he retaliates by whooping her. I don't know what to do about him. He seems to struggle lately with everything. He is gifted, has always done well in school, and has always been in advanced classes. Now, he won't do homework - I have to call the teacher to determine if there is any homework and what that homework is. It is a battle to get him to sit down and do it. There are frequent tantrums associated with the doing-of-the-homework. He farts around in the mornings when it is time to get ready for school (actually, they all are guilty of this). It is completely maddening! He does see a therapist, but I am beginning to doubt the merit of this exercise. I would switch therapists, but in this town, there is only one. I fear for him. He is so talented, smart, loving, etc... but I am afraid that he is going to go down the wrong roads if I can't get control of this. Can anyone offer any advice? Thanks so much.