what can i do

[gramieblueboy]

my boy friends son has 2 children age 12 girl 9 yr old boy they both pee the bed and there pants and the boy is pooping his pants. there parents and there bialogacal grand parents let these kids hear every thing mom and dad smoke pot and talk about drugs the dad mostley there mom goes to work and NEVER have money use such foul  foul he the 9 yr old boy is picking up his head up and down on his pillow I would like where do i start cps has been called on them but nothing has been done I have to get him out of this is it to late  if I can get custady of him and get him into some intensive intensive thearpy he went home for only a month and is very out of control except when he is with me.I will call cps firs thing monday morning he is told to lie and is so confused!!! what kind of help would be the best way. any replys  or others that has had even a little experence  in this area PLEASE  PLEASE post  .

[adgal]

I agree with Margy.  If drugs and neglect are part of their homelife, I think you need to report this.  Children act out when not in a stable home, and to me that's what it sounds like is happening.  

[margypops]

They are not your children but if you are concerned for them you ask the cps for advice and act on what they say ..when you say he is out of control can you give us a scenario of how ?