I have custody of my cousins son, he has been with the family since 14 months when my mother passed away I took over custody three years ago. He was born with crack and alcohol syndeome and testicular cancer at age 5....so lifes not great all the time. ......we have had some past issues of him stealing (mostly food) and lies even when theres no reason to lie...like did you have breakfast...and instead of saying yes or no will tell some story of why he did not eat yet. .....any way the past year is out of control, he been to doctors, I have given possitive attention, not punished for theft, writing, no sweets or going out to dinner (which means me too...LOL)keeping a journal, not going to friends houses, rewarding him for good behavior at end of the week, letting the small stuff go , telling him nobodys perfect but....he continues to steal. the doctors all say counsiling might work or drugs but I cant even get him an appointment until late November for evaluationand I am going crazy now....no matter what food I give him like swwets and cany he still steals more and its not like he wants a slice of cheese he takes the whole pack and hides the wrappers in the sofa...5 or 6 ice stix and hides them in behind the bed, whole bags of chips...my sister and I share the house so she has junk food too. Any idea what to do with him....I cant have him home alone and I need to work, I dont get money to send him to after care.