So my fiances son, who is 5yrs old, has been making up stories and telling his mother that his father and myself was having sex infront of him... which never happend cos we hardly even kiss infront of him when he visits. The mother already has a problem with me being with my fiance and this had been goin on for 4yrs now.
My fiances baby momma made a big deal of it (obviousli cos i understand any mother would, but i wouldnt quite assume its the truth. Instead she could have asked my fiance if it was true) and straight accused us and threatend to take him to court if thats what his doing around his child. firstly she doesnt want the child around me and believes i would hurt him because she still wants my fiance back and would always try to come on to him or try and chat to him morning hours when her husband is asleep.
My fiance spoke to his son and calmly asked him what did he tell his mother.. the son started closing his face to hide himself. My fiance asked him several times and he could not answer.. my fiance then asked him was it true what he said, he shook his head no, then my fiance askes him so why is he telling lies to his mother, and his son started crying and couldnt get a word out. Before that his son would tell his mother lies and say when he goes out with us his father doesnt buy him things and when we go eat out "I" say he cant have food then me and my fiance would eat infront of him without buying him anything to eat..
I must say i really feel hurt and confused because i never did any of those things, i was never rude to him, i treat him like i would treat my old kids. As far as discipline comes i let my fiance do that cos i dont want any drama with the baby moma again.
Whenever his son is around he makes me feel uncomfortable ever since he was telling lies.. my fiance saw for this few days i have been abit distant and quiet when his son is around and asked me watsup. I then told him how i feel ever since his son lied and he just said maybe its a phase his going through..
I think its a real issue cos the mother already wana break us up because she still wants him eventho she is married, now the son telling lies to his mother. Yet when his around me im his best friend and he just wana play video games with me.. im just affraid more lies might come and cause more drama.
What should i do?