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Accurate Conception date
I reallly need to know who the father of my baby is; my whole life and the childs life depends on it.
I had intercourse with a guy around 10-11th of January - He DIDNOT come inside me at all - My x and I got back together and we had inter-course around the 23-24th of January - He ejaculated inside of me.
Although the first guy did not ejaculate inside me - what are the chances that he might be the father and I might have already been pregnant before having inter-course with my bf
My due date is on the 16 October 2013
I really need to know
I had intercourse with a guy around 10-11th of January - He DIDNOT come inside me at all - My x and I got back together and we had inter-course around the 23-24th of January - He ejaculated inside of me.
Although the first guy did not ejaculate inside me - what are the chances that he might be the father and I might have already been pregnant before having inter-course with my bf
My due date is on the 16 October 2013
I really need to know
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That was a very nice thing for you to say. Thank you, and take care.
Now this is the kinda advice a woman gives to another woman -
Thanks Annie Brooke - Im at so much more ease now - You are a superstar ....
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Thanks Annie Brooke - Im at so much more ease now - You are a superstar ....
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Well I would say the second guy. I conceived Jan 10 and I'm due Oct 3. But you can't be 100% sure without a DNA test. I think you need to get one and be honest with your soon-to-be husband because starting a marriage with a lie is not good.
Be honest with your boyfriend. Im in a long distance relationship and i had sex with a friend. I'm now 17 weeks pregnant and told my boyfriend. He was upset at first but now he's moving with me in October and we are now engaged. Honestly is the best policy. If he truly love you things will work out for the better. Good luck hun.
I definitely think it's your BF's baby, but you also have to put yourself in his shoes, the truth will always come out, you don't want to join into a marriage with skeletons in the closet.
Thanks Hun - (**,)
My just called my gynae - the due date is accurate. If the 1st was the father due date would have been 02 October 2013 - which leaves a 14 day gap and sperm especially if its precum will not survive in the body for that long. So my BF is the dadda - Now Im just gonna enjoy my beautiful baby bump.
My just called my gynae - the due date is accurate. If the 1st was the father due date would have been 02 October 2013 - which leaves a 14 day gap and sperm especially if its precum will not survive in the body for that long. So my BF is the dadda - Now Im just gonna enjoy my beautiful baby bump.
Its really hard to know just by dates...the best thing wojld be to be honest with your bf...if u guys weren't together then he should understand that and wouldnt leave u for living your life...but if u don't tell him then he will feel lied to when he finds out
If you didn't wear condom anything is possible. and ask your doctor if he/she adds those extra weeks some add 2 weeks to your pregnancy some don't. Maybe your doctor can give you a better idea ? like if you ask he/she with those dates which one they think?
There just like a 10% chance that the baby might be the 1st guy but I just want to be 100% sure, I've just been so nervous lately.
My LMP was the 9 Jan 2013
The due date of my baby is 16 October 2013 and the date hasnt changed for my last 3 Gynae Visits.
The due date of my baby is 16 October 2013 and the date hasnt changed for my last 3 Gynae Visits.
^^jist because he didn't *** doesn't mean his precum didn't get you pregnant and yes guys precum all threwout sex, that's why the "pull out method" doesn't work.
I think ur bf would b the father considering the first guy didnt ejaculate inside at all , and ur bf did , though there could still b a small chance that its the first guy I think its highly unlikely
If he really loves you he should understand, you guys were broken up.. my fiance would cry if me and him were in the situation but he wouldn't leave me, I really think you should sit him down and explain what the possiblitys are.. cause I'm pretty sure it would be the first Guy, better now than that day right?
I would say 2nd guy only because I'm due Sept 12th and concieved on the 20th of December. But ya that doesn't mean much it could still be either guy you need to be honest and get a dna test
I think the second guy because im due oct 22 and i conceived january 29 well if i did my math right you conceived around 23 or 24 but also make sure thats the official due ,date and question when did you had your period before the 10 or the11 of january or after?
yeh more dan likely the first guy, u cant actually b 100% until u do a DNA test really
Wow. thats crazy. i dont know what i would do if i was in your situation. the best thing to do is ve honest. what if you dont tell him, yal get married then somewhere down the road he finds out on his own and leaves you then? if u tell him now at least you'll know what kind of person he really is. does he love you enough to forgive you? a relationship based on a lie will not last
I want a family and my BF doesnt know of the first guy I had Inter-course with - We getting married next weekend. It would break his heart when he finds out the child isnt his and he will leave me and dont want to be a single mom - Its tough - He already loves this baby so much.
.. If due date has been confirmed by ultrasound you would have conceived the 11th of January, so the first guy
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Here is what the conception calculator says for the due date of October 16.
First day of last menstrual period: January 9
Probable date of ovulation: January 23
Possible dates of conception: January 19 to 27
Due date: October 16 (40 weeks)
I can't see that Mister Didn't-Come (who you slept with on the 10th when you were broken up from your boyfriend) has anything to do with anything. As your doctor said by looking at the measurements of the embryo, by the time you ovulated, all his sperm would be dead. I mean, you were on the second day of your period, for heaven's sake. Don't worry.
There is no question according to the doctor and your ultrasound that your fiance is the father. Don't dump this unfounded fear on your fiance. All you would do is ruin his happiness right before the wedding (and for no reason). Ruining her husband's happiness is not something a good wife does. You'll bear a lot of burdens for your husband's sake in the course of marriage, let this (the burden of shutting up about a worry) be the first.
If the dates were closer or the issue more questionable, I would be in the "tell all" camp because it would be wrong not to. You would need to know, both men would need to know, the baby would need to know, you would need to get a DNA test, and so forth. But obviously you are not intending to embark on a life of having sex with other guys. Let sleeping dogs lie and let any residual guilt or worry you might feel be the fuel for your resolve to give your husband a perfect life.