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Who is my baby's daddy?

Okay so many of y'all know my situation and are all probably annoyed by all of my questions, lol I'm sorry I just don't have anyone to talk to about this and I need help. The first day of my LMP was Feb 23, I had sex with my bf on March 3rd and he finished inside me. (I make it clear that we were not together at the time but we were before our break up in a 3 year fully committed relationship) then after we had sex we stopped talking again and me being hurt and all I've always been the type that feels better with attention (I hate that about myself but my dad never gave me the attention I needed from a man) anyways, I slept with another guy on March 9th (my supposed ovulation day) then a month later I find out I'm pregnant so of course the first person I tell is my ex (now bf) because he was the only one that came to mind and he automatically thought it was his and asked no questions and I myself believed it until his mom asked for a DNA test since I had hurt him once before and he decided to put it behind us and keep strong but she still never forgot, I don't blame her. I never cheated though it was something else. So I guess then the other guy came back to mind and I been freaking out. So according to numbers I was wondering if each of yall who are willing if yall can do the math (I've already done it myself) but tell me what yall get. In all honesty PLEASE. like I said I had sex with my bf March 3rd and sex with the other guy March 9th, my LMP was Feb 23 (I'm not sure when it ended because I can't really tell when my period ends Idk if I count the brown left over blood or just the heavy days) and I've only jotted down my last 3 periods which have been Dec 25 Jan 25 and Feb 23 I'm not sure if those numbers are needed but your answers will definitely help in my decision on what to do. So please be honest with what you get, who's my baby daddy? Thanks in advance.
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1936698 tn?1333915193
It all depends on the date you ovulated. Some women ovulate at different points after their periods. Remember that sperm can live inside you for a day or so.
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Did you have a dating scan??
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I'm so scared I don't know what to do :'( on the bright side I got a phone call a sec ago from the other guy saying if its his he wants to take care of us. Only problem with that is, I don't want him :'(
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What's a dating scan?
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2109562 tn?1347253848
Yeah it will say you conceived the 8th because its exactly 2 weeks later. Maybe you could ask your doctor to see if he has some advice on it. Basically all you can do is wait to see and have a DNA test done. We can't really tell you who exactly it is, all we can do is guesstimate on when you would have conceived just like anyone else. Try to enjoy your pregnancy and just think about your baby.
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1936698 tn?1333915193
I know you are scared hun, but even if it turns out the baby isn't your fiance's then at least you know the other guy wants the baby and you can give him full custody if you want to.
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